Visiontowealth
Newsletter focus on Jack Canfield
Jack
Canfield Co-author of Chicken Soup Series
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books by J. Canfield & M.V.Hansen
I got started on my
present path about 30 years ago when I was working
as a teacher with inner city school kids. W.Clements
Stone at that time was a very successful millionaire
and editor of Success magazine. So I worked with
him for a period of six months hoping to learn some
way to motivate these kids.
I
also read a lot, including over 30 autobiographies
about success. One of the things I learned to do
over the years was to go with my gut. For example
everywhere I would go I would tell these wonderful
stories and people would always be asking me if
they were in a book somewhere. Finally it dawned
on me that I could put these stories into a book.
In fact,in my notebook I had collected 68 stories.
I still have this notebook at home.
One day I was having
breakfast with Mark Victor Hansen and he asked me
what I was working on and mentioned that I was going
to publish these stories but I didn't have a name
for the book. He insisted that he work with me and
finally I gave in only on the condition that he
add another 30 stories, which he did.
Getting from this
stage to an overnight success really tested both
of us. But "You really need to trust your heart
and success will follow".
I
teach people how to get through the rough spots.
If you feel you are doing God's work or are destined
to achieve a mission or a purpose it forces you
to 1) deepen your faith and 2) to develop your skills
& attitudes. It is something like school you learn
and when you are ready you are tested.
One
of the things I do is teach people to juggle and
when they drop the ball I ask them to say "Oh what
fun" and in essence to change their attitude towards
failure and learn the attitude for success. Did
you know that a chick in the egg has to strike his
head over 900 times over the course of 4-6 hours
before he can break free. It is analogous to something
you have to do for yourself in order to achieve
success. No can do this for you.
You might find it
difficult when faced with the challenge of the dichotomy
of where you are and where you want to be, but I
welcome it. The greater the tension between what
is and what isn't, the stronger is the pull towards
where I want to be. My number 1 rule is "take 100%
responsibility for your own life", and what I have
in my life is the result. In my talks I teach the
formula E(vents)+ R(esponse) = O(utlook). Events
happen, we have little control over them but our
attitude and how we respond greatly affects the
results.
Most
people view, what I call the "GAP" between their ideals
and current reality and are discouraged. But if you
look back you will notice you are better you are or
have learned significantly more than say six months
or a year ago. I encourage people to track their achievements,
even their little successes and to keep a success
journal. It builds self esteem. Its as if with each
win you work towards building a bunch of poker chips.
These successes don't half to be big, it may be just
remembering to take the garbage out. The more chips
I build, the more I can risk.
Create
that tension be willing to dream big goals. Break
those big goals into little ones and reward yourself
by acknowledging yourself every little step along
the way. What you are building up is something notable
and lovable.
One of the things W. Clements Stone suggested was
to each week trade one hour of watching television
for a reading a book on such topics as management
and psychology. Soon, you will be reading 520 books
per year and be at the top of your chosen area of
endeavor within a matter of years.
If you were to ask
me what drives me, even now, I would say it is my
sense of purpose, "Empowering and Inspiring people
to live in Love and Joy". A lot of people are driven
to prove to others they are successful but they
are not happy and won't enjoy their success.
If I was to offer
you some ideas on how to find your sense of purpose
I would suggest using a common used image of imagining
yourself going up a mountain to a very old and gifted
wise man. When you get there he hands you a gift
and when you open the gift your quest is answered.
You can write down,
"the qualities I like to express myself are" and
list them. You can answer the question - "if the
world was working properly what would it be like?".
Everyone should make
an analysis of what their strengths are and set
goals in relationship to their strengths. Do the
things that are your unique ability and delegate
everything else and thereby allow them to unveil
their unique ability.
When asked what I
personally find effective in communicating in my
larger talks, I have to say that it is the power
of visualization and how effective it is for accelerated
learning. Perhaps it is because of my own experience.
When I was working
for W.Clements Stone he asked me to set an outrageous
goal something that would prove to him that it was
due to his influence on me. At the time I was making
$8,000 a year, it was a long time ago, and I thought
I would never make $100,000, so I said $100,000.
After that every morning and lunch hour I would
take time out to visualize the car and house I would
have.
Six weeks later I
had a $100,000 idea in the shower. The book I had
written a year earlier "101 ways to build self esteem
in the classroom", I imagined it making the best
sellers list. Six weeks later a publisher heard
me speak and wrote an article on me in the National
Inquirer. On the basis of their vast readership
I got some exposure for my book.
Eventually I realized
that the book stores were making $3.50 on each book
while I was making only 25 cents. I became a book
store, sold my books at conferences, and raised
my consulting fee from $300 to $800 a day. BY the
end of the year I made $96,000 not $100,000, but
I wasn't disappointed.
When my wife asked
me if visualization can work for $1,000,000.00. I
achieved it, my first royalty check was for $1,000,000.00
Visualizing is something
you do naturally. It is similar to going over to
your neighbors newly remodelled house and then going
back to your own. It sets up a tension within you.
The more you can inspire this difference the greater
your drive becomes. This is one of the reasons you
want to be inspired by positive people.
W. Clemens Stone told
me was to look at all the people around me and put
a "N" against all those who were nurturing and a
"T" for all those who were toxic. Then he said to
avoid all those people who had a "T" beside them.
This proved to be difficult as one these people
turned out to be my own mother.
You may wonder how
does one turn his self image from one earning $8,000
a year to one earning $100,000 a year. Well one
can use a visualization technique of seeing yourself
as in a movie either as an observer disembodied,
looking at yourself from the outside or embodied
seeing yourself from the inside, seeing what you
see. I find the latter much more effective.
I teach people to
imagine their ideal life, car and house as a moving
picture and describe everything in great detail.
I have even gone into a Lexus dealership to help
me visualize the minutest detail of a Lexus 401.
It is critical to
close your eyes and see it in your imagination.
Add to this how you will feel when you reach your
goal. Apparently this activates a part of the brain
called the "ventricular activator" (sic). It
allows us to see what we need to make our vision
happen. You will never find a four leaf clover unless
you are prepared to see it. Luck just doesn't happen
by itself.
With Mark & I, when
we decided to put our efforts together in making
a book of stories, we still needed to come up with
a title. With Mark he repeated over and over to
himself, Make a best selling title, make a best
selling title. I on the other hand asked God to
just give me a title.
We started this on
Monday and on Wednesday I saw Chicken Soup but I
could only associate chicken soup with being sick.
That is until I told my wife and she said but peoples
spirits are sick. Then I came up with the name "Chicken
Soup for the Soul". Both of us got goose bumps at
the same time - that was it!
To reinforce your
visualization make cards with all your goals realized.
This will take a little time but if you asked people
to invest two days a year into themselves most people
will say yes. This will help you focus and carry
on when times are tough.
With our literary
agent we proposed to 20 New York publishers and
then we went to 20 more. After this our agent quit
and gave us back the rights to our book. Most people
would of quit after that. We went on to a book publishers
event where publishers had tables set up. Out of
4000 publishers only one called us back.
I learned how to handle
rejection from Larry Wilson. He used to sell encyclopedias.
Every time he made a sale he made $250. What he
realized that it took him on average 10 calls before
he made a sale, so in essence each call made him
$25 dollars. After that he got in the habit of thanking
each of his potential customers for $25 and his
percentage of sales went up.
To make the book work,
Mark and I practised the Law of 5. We did 5 things
every day that would move the book forward. In the
end it took us one year of dedication before the
book took off.
Together Mark and
I have now written 35 books, 29 of them are best
sellers, among them is the Aladdin Principle and
the Power of Focus. Each year we work on 8 chicken
soup books, i.e. Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul,
Chicken Soup for the Veterans Soul. And each day
I have to pinch myself for feeling so lucky. I do
3-4 talks a month and spend the rest of the time
with my family.
I do a 8 day training
center each summer in Palm Springs teaching 100
specific activities. Last year we had people from
19 different counties as I do talks all over the
world.
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